Simpson, Hendley and Elizabeth Farrow, Sons Of - Medora, Macoupin County Illinois
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Transcription by J. R. Burton
"From the 1909 Medora Messenger, individual family
reminiscences for John Farrow Simpson, Franklin Bushrod Simpson
and William Moore Simpson.
These are three of the four sons of Hendley Simpson and
Elizabeth (Farrow) Simpson who settled in Macoupin County in the 1830's
and resided there the remainder of their lives.
A fourth son in the immediate area, Dr. James French Simpson of Green County Illinois, was not mentioned in Lymon Palmers work."
Read the Footnote from: The History of Macoupin County, Illinois: biographical and pictorial" by Hon. Charles A Walker / 1911:
Medora Messenger / Medora Illinois - Friday, Oct 15, 1909. Palmer Reminiscences: by Lyman L Palmer.
F B Simpson
As you went northward along the road from the Perry shop there
was a quite a little hill and a branch of some pretensions run through
the ravine. It all seemed very "big" to me as a boy, but really I
could not find the place the other day when I was riding along the road
with Jay Kitzmiller on my way to the fish fry. Well, just on the
north side of that branch or stream, be it big or little now, there
stood a house on the west side of the road which was occupied by "Doc"
Simpson and family ever since I can remember, and that is a good ways
back, now. In those early days before the post office passed into
the hands of Judge Rice it was kept by Mr. Simpson, and many a time I
have been there for mail when I was a wee bit of a lad.
In those days I used to think two things about Mrs. Simpson (Miss
Mary Parker), first, that she was the prettiest woman in the Point,
and, second, that she was the best woman in that part of the
neighborhood. I would not like to say that I never went there for
the mail without her giving me a piece of pie or a cookie, but she did
it so frequently that the fact was indelibly fixed upon my boyish
brain. I have said before that I used to spend many a lonesome
hour when I was a boy, and anyone who paid any attention to me, or who
was kind to me won my lifelong gratitude and affection! And so It
has come that through all the years I have always had the most kindly
remembrances of the dear woman who was kind to me so long ago.
Many years afterward, on my return from California, it was my
happy privilege to be at the Simpson home for supper one Sunday evening,
and northing ever gave me more pleasure that to note the sweet and
happy smile which played over Mrs. Simpson's face when I recounted to
those present the little incident, and how much it meant to my poor,
love-famished, boyish heart. Ah, dear hearts of yon olden days, so
many of you were kind to me, but you could not know, you cannot know
now, how much it meant to my starving heart. The tears were
standing in my eyes as I write these words and all the old feelings of
loneliness and lack of love sweeps o'er my soul! Is it any wonder
that I love you all who were kind to me with an affection that will
endure to the end of life, and which fails to find expression in words?
"Doc" Simpson was a sturdy, stirring man who always had things on the
move in those days. I recall spending many a night in the farmer's
hostelries at Alton in those days, such as the "Farmers Home," kept by
dear old John Wendt, the "Piasa House," and Mrs. Armstrong's place, with
a host of up-country farmers, and Doc Simpson was always the life of
the crowd.
It was a very sad day when the issues of the war came up and separated
the whole neighborhood into two factions, and the friends of the pioneer
days became implacable enemies during wars times. Doc Simpson
lined up with the Souther sympathizers, and hence I saw but little of
him or his family after the war began. Since my return from the
west I renewed the acquaintanceship of my boyhood's days with him, and
many a good visit I had with him when in Medora during his last days on
earth. But the white haired and whiskered man of those days was
not the man I had known back there in the '60's. One time I went
to Medora and as I missed his familiar figure on the street I made
inquiry and they told me he had joined that innumerable host "over on
the other shore"." He was always kind to me, and so I loved him, and
mourned him when they told me I should see his kindly face no more.
There were three daughters, Celia, Hattie and Nellie, and one son, Dick,
that I remember in those days. I met the two older girls in
school for a number of terms both at the Point and at Summerville.
I remember one cold, snowy evening as we were all "hiking it" home
someone came along in a sled and took the girls in and left us boys
standing knee deep in the snow. Of course we were not so very
happy over it, but the girls seemed to enjoy it very much. I can
see their happy, smiling faces yet as they looked back and waved an
adieu to us and in a spirit of gleeful mischief shouted out and asked us
if we would not like to have a ride, too. Ah, dear girls, it is a
far cry back to that winter's day, but I am glad to note the fact that
the "sledding has been good" for all of those who were present there
during all these years so far as I am informed.
Celia married my dear old friend Andy Steed, and so I came to always
think of her as linked up with me in the same ties of friendship as
those which bound me to him. Since my return from the west I have
had several pleasant visits with her and have found her the same quiet,
unassuming , dear girl I used to know at school.
Hattie was a slender as a pole in those days, and as active as a
cat. There was no such thing as keeping her still. If it
were not for "telling tales out of school" I would relate the fact that
she and Bird Love were "the best of friends" in those days when we all
used to go to school at Summerville together, and that one day, because
of her penchant to always be doing something, (Stroud) Keller tied her
hands together with a string and then fastened the string to a nail
quite a bit higher than her head, as a punishment. In the passing
to or from his class Bird edged off over to where Hattie was "strung up"
and quick as a flash he severed the string with his knife thinking that
she would take her hands down. But not she. Either she was
too honorable to try and evade the punishment or else the fear that a
worse thing might come upon her if she did, and so her hands remained in
the same position as before. I saw Bird doing it, and felt that
he was making a mistake at the time, and so it proved, for, while the
string was uncut, it served as a support for her uplifted hands, but
once it was severed it became a real agony for her to sustain them in
that tiresome position. Keller saw the cutting act,
too, but was too smooth to let on, knowing that she would soon discover
the trick if her hands came down. After she had been properly
punished, as he thought, he told her to go to her seat, and when she
walked away without assistance he feigned great surprise, but let the
matter drop there. I have never seen Hattie since I went west, but
my wife happily met her acquaintance at Leita Loper's wedding, and she
assures me "that Mrs. Bell is a stout, portly woman." Wish I could see
her sometime so that I could make my own eyes believe it!
The next daughter was Nellie. Have you heard of the cat which sat
on the fence and saw the queen go by. Well, that is the game I
used to play. In those days there were some girls in the
neighborhood who "doted on" horseback riding, such as Lucy Kemper, Belle
Thompson, Jessie Dannels, and other who have slipped from my memory at
this distance. I trust that the other girls will not get "green
with jealousy" when I write it down here that, in my eyes, Nellie
Simpson was the queen of them all. O, but she was a picture in
those days to make any man's heart rejoice when he saw her! She
was about "sweet sixteen" and as "pretty as a peach," and "then
some." She was the perfect picture of abounding health, her cheeks
were as rosy as an apple, her eyes as bright as diamonds, and her hair
the color of the crow's wing. And, say, but that little girl could
sit on a horse just a bit nicer, yes handsomer, than any woman I ever
saw in a saddle. She had a beautiful little bay which might well
be the pride and joy of any lover of good horse flesh, and horse and
rider presented as charming a picture as ever passed along those
roads. I used to be working by the roadside a good deal in those
and I often was fortunate enough to be near the "end of the row" just a
Nellie would go galloping by. I don't mind saying it now
that my heart always beat a faster pace for a "round or two" after she
passed.
I used to wish that the "pesky war had been in Guinea" for it put me in
such a position that I could have no fellowship with the young people
whose parents stood on the "other side of the line."
I went over to Mr. Simpson's once to some sort of Baptist church
"doin's" just about the time that Nellie was in the height of her glory
in my admiration just to see if I could not "break the ice," but I went
away broken hearted long before it was over, for there was "nothing
doing" for me. Of course I didn't tell her a word about it, and
she always remained just as oblivious of my admiration as was the queen
of the cat's presence on the top rail of the fence in the fable.
Once, I was driving along the road following close to a rig in which
Nellie was riding on the back seat coming up through Hawkins prairie
from a camp meeting down at the Yellow Banks, and I saw her handkerchief
flutter out on the dust-laden air. I was out of my buggy in a
second and had it in my hand in a jiffy. Her team stopped and I
hastened up, covered with blushes, and handed it to her. She
thanked my very graciously, and the "bright smile haunts me still" which
she gave me as a reward.
But those old days with their would-be romances and day-dreams have long
since sunken into the depths of the great ocean of oblivion, and their
shadows, and their sweet memories , are all that are left to us
now. And shadows and memories is all there is to them! Since
my return from California, as the wife of Mr. John Robings, one of
Medora's most worthy and respected citizens, it has given me much joy to
have Nellie as one of my warmest friends. I nearly always see her
when I visit Medora and her hearty hand clasp and cheery greeting is
one of the brightest memories I bring away with me.
Richard Simpson was some younger than I, but I saw much of him in
school, hence felt quite one with him. He was on of the nicest
boys that ever grew up in that country. Everyone loved him and had
a good word for him. He was always industrious on the farm,
studious in school and trustworthy in places of confidence. About
the time I went west he secured a position in a bank in Nokomis , Ill.,
and when dear old Thad Loper came on out to California he told the sad
news that "Dick" was dead. O, how many of the dear old boys and
girls are waiting "Over There!" And we, too can sing, "O think of
the Home over there, By the side of the River of Life."
Medora Messenger / Medora Illinois - Friday, Oct 22, 1909. Palmer Reminiscences: by Lyman L Palmer.
William M. Simpson
"After the railroad was completed through Medora in 1869, there was a
field for a hotel, and William Simpson opened one in a large building,
which he erected on the south side of the street leading to the depot
and about opposite the present Loper store. I presume the building was
destroyed by the great fire or at some other time as I miss it now when I
go to Medora. That is the first that I remember about William
Simpson and family. Where he lived before or what he did is
unknown to me. But as the "mein host" of the Medora hostelry I
recall him very vividly. He was a man of stout build as I recall
him, full whiskers, and a very genial face. I never had any
intimate acquaintance with him mostly, I suppose because of the
sectional sentiment which had grown up during the war. It served
to put a blight on a lot of the social life that would otherwise have
existed among the residents of the section at that time. I always
heard him well spoken of by the neighbors and believe that he was a
worth citizen in every sense of the word. My own personal
impressions of him as I saw him in those days bear me out in writing him
down as a gentleman filled with generous impulses and manly qualities.
Mrs. Simpson was one of the famous (Frances) Parker sisters, of whom I
wrote just a few weeks ago. I do not recall now that I ever came
into contact with her at all, but in spite of that fact I know that she
was a most excellent woman because one always hears a lot of things
talked about the neighborhood when he is a lad, and the neighborhood
talk, as a rule, does not go far astray in its estimation of the worth
and character of individuals. And so, measured up by his standard,
Mrs. Simpson was a most excellent woman. I was thrown much in
contact for a year or so with those who were most intimately acquainted
with his family and the mother was always referred to in highest
terms. I am told that she is now the wife of my old time friend,
Rev. John W. Rice.
If my memory serves me right William Simpson was married twice, and the
children of the first marriage comprised three boys, Gideon, James and
William. I was brought much into contact with these boys in those
earlier days before the war, and occasionally during the war. I
was well acquainted with all of them, and, as a boy I liked them for
they were always good to me. Really, as I recall them now, I think
of them as among the best friends I had at the Keller school in the old
Baptist church. They were old enough not to "pester" me in any
way, and yet they were companionable for me.
"Gid," the oldest one, was a genial fellow with a fine appearance.
He was good-looking and that fact always appealed to me. I recall
very distinctly one thrilling incident in my usually monotonous
existence in which Gid played a very conspicuous part. In those
days during the war, many people who lived north of the Point used the
"east road," the one running north from Piasa to Summerville, hilly
though it was, that they might avoid going through the Point. One
who did not live in those days cannot appreciate the tense feelings that
swayed men in the different political parties at the time. One
day my father (Luther Bateman Palmer) sent me out of Brighton alone with
a two-horse "thimble skein" wagon, and I drove along the east road for
the reasons already stated, for I had had a taste or two of things that
were not pleasant while going the other road. I was letting the
horses swing along at a good lively pace down one of those long hills
over near where the Overton Brothers used to live, when all of a sudden
something happened which caused me to "sit up and take notice" about the
quickest I ever did in my life. Without any sort of warning the
"off" front wheel had come off the thimble and allowed the front axle to
drop down cornerwise, with the thimble dragging in the dirt. I
brought things to a stand-still as speedily as possible and hopped out
of the wagon to investigate. The wheel had chased itself away off
to one side of the road and had landed in a big ditch which the rains
had cut in the "yaller clay" which comprised the hill. I soon
discovered that the cause of my calamity was the fact that the nut had
come off the thimble and hence there was nothing to hold the wheel
on. Making the team secure I began to "hike it" back up the hill
hunting for the lost nut.
Up the long hill I went, and still no signs of it. Then
along the level stretch southward as far as I could go, for already it
was getting dusk. At last I saw the fog of dust rising from a team
coming away down the road near the home of Painter Yeatman. In a
short time I had met it, and out from the midst of the cloud of dust
came a shout, "Whoa! Hello, Lyman, is that you?" "Yes," I
replied demurely, for that was the first time I had spoken to Gid
Simpson for several years, although I presume I had seen him a hundred
times. "Have you lost anything?" he asked. The I told him of
my disaster. "Does that look like the thing you are looking for?"
he asked, throwing the black, axle-grease-besmeared nut at my
feet. "That is the very thing I am looking for," I replied in
ecstasies of delight. Say, but I could have hugged him right there
if I had had a chance. I was profuse in my thanks, but he only
said, "Take it and be happy, and just remember all your life that a
'secesh' can do a kindly act just as well as a Yankee." Then he
invited me to get into his wagon and ride back to where my outfit was
anchored in the "yaller clay." When we got there he jumped out of
his wagon, went to the fence and secured a rail, and in a few moments we
had the wheel on again. O how my heart did go out to him for that
kindly act, and I am only too glad of the chance, even at this late
date, to acknowledge my obligation to my "secesh" friend. I wonder
where he is there days. If these lines should reach him I hope he
will again accept my hearty thanks for the kindly deed of long ago.
The next boy was "Jim." He was a good boy and was much liked in
the community as a young fellow, except for the war sentiments. I
never heard that he took any active part in matters which caused
trouble. Near the close of the war he went to California with the
Joseph Hooper outfit which comprised, among others, Henry Kemper and Dr.
N. Jayne. After I had in California a number of years, I was
visiting Mrs. Jayne, who was my aunt, and she informed that Jim had been
at her home, up in the San Joaquin Valley, just a few days
previously. I always regretted that I had missed seeing him.
She said that he seemed to be prosperous, and that he made a good
report of himself and family, for he had married out in that
country. I do not remember what address she gave. The next
boy was "Bill," and I saw but little of him after the old school
days. During the war he drifted out of sight so far as I was
concerned, and I never have seen him since.
The children of the second marriage so far as I ever knew, were Reuben,
Stella and Lucella. Reuben was a dear, good boy, and I loved him
as the apple of my eye. Many a happy hour I have had with old
"Rube" in those days when he was clerking in the Butler Store in
Medora. He was full of fun but there was not a "streak" of any
kind in him from first to last. I have never seen in since those
old days, nor do I know of his whereabouts at this time, but if he is
alive, and should he see these lines, here's a hearty handclap across
the chasm of years for the friend of my boyhood days.
The oldest girl was Stella. I recall her as one of the handsomest
young women of those days in that end of the community. She was
just as popular as she was beautiful, and I was told by those who knew
her that she was a sweet-souled, lovely girl. Of course I had no
personal relations with her for reasons already noted in these sketches,
but I saw her very frequently at church and at other public gathering
and was much impressed with her dignified bearing, modesty and
comeliness. But, truly "Death loves a shinning mark," and just in
the very outburst of the bud into the perfected rose the fell destroyer
overtook her, and in a deep sorrow which cast it pall over the entire
community, they laid her earthly tabernacle to rest out under the tall
swaying branches of the trees of the little grove which was in the field
just east of the Calverd home. The next girl was Lucella. I
recall her as a maiden of some sixteen summers when last I saw
her with a pleasant face and a bright and happy disposition. I saw
her often in public places, but that is as near as I ever got to any
girl around Medora in those days. Since my return from the west I
have met her frequently and have come to number Mrs. Johns and her
husband among my best friends in Medora."
Medora Messenger / Medora Illinois - Friday, Oct 22, 1909. Palmer Reminiscences: by Lyman L Palmer.
John Simpson
"All's quiet on the Potomac!" Dear old John Simpson!
How I would like to hear his cheery voice once more calling out to me,
as he comes trotting down the hill with the mail pouch on his horse,
"All's quiet on the Potomac."
The first time I ever saw him was away back yonder when I was a
"broth of a lad" with nothing to do the whole long summer's day but
follow the inclination of my own sweet will. That usually meant that I
was off where the Chism boys were. They used to go over across the
Macoupin creek to the old place for loads of hay, and that was "just
duck" for me to go along with them. In those days John lived in a
little cabin that was on the comer just north and west of the present
residence of Francis Metcalf. John was a genial sort of a fellow
and he used to come out to the roadside and "jolly" with us boys as we
were passing by. Later on he moved over to Summerville and lived
in a little house next to the residence of the "parish pedagogue,"
Stroud Keller. The family then consisted of the parents and two boys,
William and Chester.
During those Summerville days John used to work around among the
neighbors and he was often employed by my father, and so I came not only
to know him well, but also to love him very dearly, for he was always
kind to me and always had a smile and a word of cheer for me. Near
the close of the war he got the contract for carrying the mail from
Brighton to Greenfield. Of course that was before the days of the
railroad. He was very accommodating and often brought our mail
down to us from Summerville on his semi-weekly trips. In 1864 I
"took French leave" from home and went and enlisted at Alton. My
father came after me and brought me home owing to my "inadequate age"
and from that time on there was nothing that ever pleased John half so
much as to shout out to me whenever he chanced to meet me the greeting
at the head of this sketch. Dear old friend of my youth, how I did
love you, and I trust that now you are in the enjoyment of that "deep
settled peace" which God gives to his well-beloved.
Mrs. Simpson was Miss Lottie Sherman, daughter of Barney Sherman,
and sister of Lem Sherman, so well known in Summerville some forty years
ago. She was a dear good woman, and a model mother.
The two boys, William and Chester, were both quite a bit younger
than I, but I well remember their white heads sticking up above the back
of the seats in the old Summerville school. They were manly,
sturdy fellows and I always thought a whole lot of them. I
remember that Will "wrestled" with the "straw raking" proposition once
when we were threshing, and being a little slip of a lad, he was not
heavy enough to hold the rail down. The result was that he and
"old George," our straw raking horse were often bucked clear out of
sight in the swirling chaff and straw until some of us came to their
rescue. But he stuck to it with a bravery that was worthy a better
cause. Old George could do the act all by himself; all he asked
of the boy was to hold the rail down along the rail and unload it at the
dump. It used to be a snap for me to rake straw with old George.
Dear boys, I have often wondered what a kindly Providence has brought out of his great treasure house for each of you."
Footnote from The History of Macoupin County, Illinois: biographical and pictorial" by Hon. Charles A Walker / 1911:
"In 1909, early in the spring, there began to appear in the
Medora Messenger, a series of reminiscent articles from the facile pen
of Lyman Palmer, that at once attracted the interested notice of the
local readers of that excellent sheet and its exchanges throughout the
county. Being a man of large mental calibre, broad experience and
superior journalistic training, coupled to a retentive and reliable
memory, these pen pictures of Mr. Palmer lent such a charm to his
narratives and so clear an atmosphere of historic truth as to make for
each article a value and importance all its own. Eventually, they came
under the notice of the present historian and at a glance their value to
the work in hand by him was apparent and quickly recognized. Hence, a
condensation of Lyman Palmer's recollections of the early history and
peoples of Chesterfield township and vicinity is here produced, with
only one regret that the manuscript could not have been published in
full in these pages.
A word or two as to Lyman Palmer : He tells us he was the
firstborn of Luther Bateman Palmer and Louisa A. Brainard, daughter of
Samuel D. Brainard, and that his parents were married in 1847 by Rev.
Elihu Palmer, brother of General John M. Palmer, but of no immediate
relation to Luther. That he grew to manhood in the vicinity of Medora
and "stuck type" on the Carlinville Democrat. Moved to California, where
he taught school and was connected with San Francisco papers. Returned
to Macoupin county, then took up his residence in Chicago and, in 1911,
finally settled in Florida. "
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